How To Talk Dirty To My Boyfriend – The Basics You Must Know
October 30th, 2008 | by guest |When looking to answer the question how do i talk dirty to my boyfriend, you need to recognize that there are actually more than just one way of talking dirty.
Talking dirty to your man isn’t just about saying the most shocking, rudest words you can think of you know, there is actually a lot more to it than that. Text talk, suggestive talk and wanton are just three different types you have to know and apply at the right time.
For most, dirty talk evokes an image of trying to think of as many dirty words and expressions to use and put into words – but that is actually far from the truth.
Talking dirty to anyone involves a bit of thought, use of the little grey cells just slightly and a pinch imagination to be truly successful.
If your idea of talking dirty to your man is you saying something “really rude!” whilst bumping uglies – consider this.
Dirty talk is an aid to the imagination. When one person says something, the other person listening starts to imagine what is being said in their mind, almost picturing it in full 3D color!
This is especially true of men who can visualize and mentally see in 3D better than women! (Sorry ladies.)
Don’t believe me? Watch the differences next time between how a man and a woman reads a road map. 9 times out of 10 the man holds it in one position and reads it where as the woman will turn it to try and line it up with the direction being traveled! 3D versus 2D!
Anyway, where was I? Oh yes, differences of talking dirty.
You can sensibly say that there are at least three different types of dirty talk that you could use, depending on the situation:-
Text
Suggestive
Wanton
Based on the fact that imagination plays a huge part in receiving and enjoying dirty talk, why not pay to that strength by using the right one of the three to suit the place and time?
Man far away or not able to be grabbed right now?
Send him a suggestive or dirty text. Let him know you are thinking of him and he’ll respond. What strength text you send him really depends on your normal level of flirty talk during a day and what state you last left each other in!
If you are leading into making love and starting to slowly arouse each other, don’t be blatant or totally crude, be suggestive and restrained, tease your man with hints and ideas as opposed to a verbal Karma Sutra.
Whispering and canoodling with him will gain you far better results and will appeal to his basic instincts far better. This is also a killer way to get him going when I public, a gentle whisper in the ear will easily arouse and enflame.
Wanton? Well, I reckon you can work that one out, can’t you?
