How To Talk Dirty To My Boyfriend - A Girls Guide
December 8th, 2008 | by guest |First of all, talking dirty can be a pretty daunting idea for some women. The most common question women ask me is “Can you tell me how to talk dirty to my boyfriend?” (Please don’t ask why they come to me, it’s a long story!)
Most women have no idea how to even broach the subject with their man, much less where to begin while actually doing the deed itself!
One thing you should always keep in mind is that there is absolutely no right or wrong way to talk dirty. The best thing to do is wait and try it out when your man is relaxed and in a good mood. The last thing you want to do is trying to talk dirty to your boyfriend when he is stressed out and totally not in the mood! That is a recipe for embarrassment and hurt.
Many women, when asking themselves how do I talk dirty to my boyfriend, think dirty talk is just something you do during sex. But talking dirty isn’t something that can only be confined to being in bed. There are many different ways and opportunities to talk dirty to your guy, you just have to open yourself up and get a bit creative. (Also, consider the thought that talking dirty isn’t something that has to be done only during the act of sex either, it can also be great and effective type of foreplay in it’s own right!)
Try talking dirty to your guy in the shower, or during a private meal. You are sure to surprise and entice him, and make him think all kinds of naughty thoughts. The daring of doing it someplace other than the bedroom can also add a bit of a forbidden and naughty feeling, wicked even to the moment which can make for some very spicy romping later!
Plus by talking dirty someplace other than the bedroom, you add anticipation to your little love recipe, and it leaves your man thinking only of you and what he can’t wait to do to you.
Something to think about though, is if you have never talked dirty to your man in the past, you might want to bring up the subject and feel him out first. Maybe read a racy romance novel, and casually mention the idea one night before bed. Sort of seeing if he is receptive to a little dirty pillow talk without having to commit yourself.
If you just spring it on him out of nowhere, and he is uncomfortable with it, it could cause strain between the two of you, and feelings could get hurt unnecessarily. It is always better to talk about new ideas first before jumping in and trying them out!
On the other hand, if you know your guy would be down with some dirty talk, and it would turn him on, by all means spring a bit of a sexy surprise on him! It will paint you as adventurous and unpredictable, and make your relationship all the hotter. I know from past experiences in learning how to talk dirty to my boyfriend, the more unpredictable you are, the more they want you and don’t want to let you go!
